The mystery of baptism - Baptism sets
The Sacrament of Baptism is definitely one of the most beautiful moments in a person's life. Tradition says that a child must be baptized between 8 and 40 days after birth, but nowadays this number is no longer strictly respected, but the parents choose as they see fit, together with the godparents.
Baptism is performed only by the priest and bishop, always in the Church. Only in very special cases, baptism can be performed outside the church (hospital, home). When a priest cannot be found, in cases of major urgency, baptism can be performed by any Orthodox Christian, by sprinkling with aghiasma or clean water, in the name of the Holy Trinity.
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The house of the next day or the Extraction from the myrrh
At the same time, another important tradition says that the "Baita de a doua zi" is almost as important. Thus, after the Baptism day, this tradition takes place at the baby's parents' home, together with the parents and close family.
The godparents are the ones who buy a new outfit for the little one and a set of ingredients needed for the birthday party (Box - Set for the next day's Party) , and the parents prepare the things necessary for the party itself, taking into account certain customs. Therefore, it is the parents' duty to provide a complete outfit, a toy, a jewel or whatever else they consider necessary.
Second Day Boy: Guide to Traditions and Rituals
The bath on the second day, also known as the bath after baptism, is a traditional Romanian ritual full of meaning. It is the time when the newly baptized child is washed with specially prepared water, often with symbolic ingredients. This guide will give you the essential information about this custom, including what a myrrh bath kit should contain, the traditions and wishes that accompany this ritual.
What Is Day Two Boy?
The second day bath is a symbolic bath that takes place the morning after baptism. This involves the use of a special set of ingredients that have the role of cleaning and protection. Here is what the kit should contain for this occasion:
- The next day's bath kit: Includes essential items such as towel, soap and other items needed for the ritual.
- Myrrh Bath Set: Complete with sacred myrrh, this set is used to add a spiritual dimension to the ritual.
The ingredients from AnneBebe's "Prima Baiță cu Nașii" Box
1. Susan: It is used for protection against evil spirits. The associated charm is: "With sesame we add protection, that this child may be safe from all evil intent."
2. Flaxseed: Contributes to health and protection. The charm says: "Flax seeds, for peace and harmony, in this child's life be."
3. Salt: Symbolizes purification and protection. The incantation is: "Salt, salt, purify and unbind, cleanse this little soul from every disease and black plague."
4. Pepper: Provides protection against the eye. The incantation used is: "Strong pepper, guard it from your eyes, that evil may not touch it, neither by night nor by day."
5. Holy Basil: Provides purification and blessing. The charm is: "Holy Basil, with thee we bless him, To grow great and wise, so be it!"
6. Flakes/Feathers: Symbolizes abundance and prosperity. The charm says: "Flakes of luck, float gently, bring abundance and happiness into this new life."
7. Sugar and honey: Represents the sweetness and gentleness of life. The charm is: "May the sweetness of life be with you, sugar and honey, for clear days and loving hearts."
8. Soap: It is used for cleaning and purification. The associated charm is: "With this soap we wash away all pain, that you may grow clean and pure."
9. Lavender: Provides calm and protection. The charm is: "May lavender guard you, bring you calm and peace."
10. Rose petals: Symbolize love and compassion. The charm used is: "Rose petals, in your life sow love and thousands of smiles."
11. Rice: Represents fertility and abundance. The charm is: "May the rice bring fertility and abundance, may there never be a ghost in this house."
12. Mint: Provides health and vitality. The charm is: "With mint, we bring freshness and health, so that this child will have a rich and long life."
13. Wheat: Symbolizes life and prosperity. The charm is: "May the wheat give you strength, grow big and strong, like wheat in the sun."
The next day's baby is a special occasion to celebrate and protect the baby in a way full of tradition and symbolism. If you have additional questions or want to share your own experience, feel free to leave a comment below!
Also, a silver penny is added to the tub, and in some parts of the country a wedding ring, rose petals, and an egg are also added. During the washing, with a sprig of basil, the nasa utters a charm: On the eyes to see only beautiful and pleasant things. On the ears to hear only good and wise words.
By mouth to have a word, you would respect others. On your hands to be diligent. On your chest to be loving. On your head to be smart. On your feet so that you always bring him home.
After the godmother washes the child, it is called by name, and loved ones can kiss it. It is good that these things take place only after the next day's fight.
It is important to remember that during this bath, the Baptism candle must always be lit. Although, priests claim that this tradition is not necessarily related to Church customs.
After the baby is washed, it is dressed in new clothes, the water is thrown against a tree, and the face/towel is placed on top of a mirror to dry.
At the end, the guests sit at the table to taste the dishes prepared by the parents, and offer a glass in honor of the child.
- Read also What should godparents do after baptism ?
- Read also WHAT DOES A BAPTISM KIT CONTAIN ?
If you are invited to such an occasion, we propose some gift ideas : clothes or shoes for the baby, earrings for the girl or a bracelet for the boy, toys suitable for babies, products for the care of the little one or various personalized objects.
The customs for this event may differ from one region to another. During it, it is important that peace and joy prevail, so that every person who has the opportunity to participate in it should feel special, being a tradition that gathers all the loved ones around the newborn baby.
Both the mother and the godmother can make this custom a personalized and organized event to their liking, to be special and unique, and for their loved ones to remember fondly years and years from now.
