What can be more beautiful than the birth of a baby? Everyone will be fascinated by the new member of the family and will want to give him the best in the world. Some families still keep ancient customs, even from motherhood.
One of these customs is the removal of the child from the maternity ward, which is done by the midwife. This can be chosen by the child's mother from among her friends or she can even be the child's godmother. We will tell you more about the role of the midwife and what kind of gifts she can give the little one upon leaving the maternity ward.
What is the role of the midwife?
In the Romanian tradition, the midwife has an essential role in a child's life, just like the godmother , being considered the person who will protect the child and who will educate him as best he can. Thus, in the past, the midwife was often an elderly woman, respected in the community for her wisdom and life experience.
The midwife offers parental advice, passing on traditional values to the child and teaching him local customs. Also, she can be a confidante for parents, offering them support and guidance in the care and education of the child.
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The midwife takes the child out of the maternity ward
In some areas of the country, the custom of the midwife taking the child out of the hospital is still alive and respected. This moment marks an important transition in the life of the newborn and his parents.
The midwife is often the one who greets the child and the family outside the hospital, accompanying them in the first moments of their life at home. As I already mentioned, the midwife can be the godmother of the child, and if the baby is a girl, she will give her the first pair of earrings, usually made of gold.
This custom is considered a way to protect and bless the newborn on his way to life. The midwife, through this symbolic gesture, sends a message of blessing and protection to the child and his family.
Moreover, the tradition emphasizes the close ties between the community and the extended family, highlighting the importance of support and reciprocity during such a beautiful and at the same time emotional period for the new family.
Gifts from the midwife for the newborn
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When the midwife fulfills her role of bringing the newborn home, she will offer some symbolic and traditional gifts, with the role of protection for the child and his family. These gifts are carefully chosen to mark the importance of this special moment.
Here are some examples of symbolic gifts that the midwife can give:
- Icon or a small crucifix: which can be placed in the child's room to protect him. It is an important tradition in Romanian culture to have such objects in the home.
- A handmade blanket or with traditional Romanian motifs: it can be a gift that conveys the warmth of the soul. Such beds are often used to swaddle the baby.
- Bells: bells are traditional Romanian objects that hang from the baby's bed or stroller to protect him from evil spirits and bad luck. They can be handmade and decorated with traditional motifs.
- Brooch with a safety pin: in Romanian culture, it is believed that a safety pin kept in the baby's stroller or clothes will protect him from harm and the eyes. The midwife could offer a beautifully decorated brooch with such a pin, as a symbol of protection.
- Gold coins: if the midwife has the opportunity, offering gold coins is a traditional gesture that symbolizes prosperity and luck for the newborn baby. These pennies can be worn in a chain or bracelet and are considered a gift with a deep meaning.
These symbolic and traditional gifts strengthen the bonds between the midwife, the child and his family, contributing to the transmission of customs and cultural values.
Other gift ideas , this time from the useful category, could be the following.
- Clothing sets for babies: a classic and practical choice. The midwife can offer sets of bodysuits, pajamas, overalls, socks and hats, made of soft and comfortable materials, essential in the first months of the baby's life.
- Plush toys and books for children: in the first months of life, babies are fascinated by colors and sounds. A plush toy or a book with vivid illustrations and different textures will stimulate the senses and be a source of joy for the little one.
- Personalized gifts: a personalized gift is always special. It can be a blanket embroidered with the baby's name, a hand-sewn plush toy or a personalized story book.
- Baby care kits: a set with delicate baby care products, such as shampoo, body lotion, diaper cream and hair brush, is a practical and useful gift for parents who are preparing to take care of their little one .
- Breastfeeding accessories: If the mother intends to breastfeed, the midwife could provide useful accessories such as nursing pillows, breast protectors or breast pumps to facilitate this important process.
- First-aid kits for babies: the midwife can provide a first-aid kit specially designed for babies, which contains a thermometer, syringes for administering medicines, tweezers and other essential items for taking care of the baby's health.
- Gifts for mom and dad: don't forget the new parents who also deserve a treat. The midwife could offer the mother a soft and comfortable blanket to rest with the baby or a kit of personal care products to take care of her sensitive skin. For dad, a book about fatherhood or a set of shaving accessories might be a good choice.
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- Culinary gifts: in the first weeks after birth, parents can be busy and tired, needing ready-made food or easy-to-prepare products. The midwife could offer packages with healthy meals, snacks or desserts to make life easier for them during this period.
- Symbolic gifts: objects with emotional meaning, such as a photo frame for the baby's first picture or a set to take a mold of the baby's sole, can be gifts that will be kept and appreciated over time.
Therefore, the midwife has an unparalleled role in the popular tradition and many families stick to the custom of choosing a midwife, maybe even the child's godmother.
