Every beginning and new thing in your child's life is a story full of charm. From the first smile and the first steps, to the first bath or the favorite blanket, all are unforgettable moments. Baptism is one of these special moments, full of meaning, where joy, deep feelings and Romanian traditions intertwine in a memorable day full of new beginnings.
For parents, organizing a baptism comes with many questions, decisions, and sometimes a touch of uncertainty: "Did I make the right choices?", "What needs to be prepared for the big day?" or "What is the role of the godparents at the baptism?".
If you're on the verge of this step or have already started preparations, then you're in luck. Below you'll find clear answers, practical ideas, and updated details for 2025, so you feel like you're not only part of a successful fairytale baptism, but also a truly precious memory.
What is baptism and why is it important?
Baptism is a moment of connection between soul and faith, between the child and the community that welcomes him with open arms. In the Christian tradition, this ritual symbolizes purification, the beginning of spiritual life and entry into the family of the Church. From birth, parents choose to guide their little one on a path of love and Christian values, and baptism is the first step on this path.
The religious service is often emotional, which is due to the unique atmosphere, the warm light in the church, the wonderful singing, the holy water, and the promises of the godparents, all of which together create a truly special moment. During the religious service, the child is immersed (or sprinkled) with holy water by the priest, and the godparents promise to watch over him. This ritual symbolizes purification, rebirth, and entry into the Church.
In addition to its religious significance, baptism brings together family and close friends. It is one of the first occasions when loved ones meet the baby and enjoy his presence. It is a day of shared emotions and bonds that are strengthened both between parents and godparents, and between generations.
Godparents play an essential role on this day and in the child's life. They become spiritual parents, support in education, guides in difficult moments, and trusted people for the parents. Their choice is not a formal one, but one based on affection, shared values, and spiritual closeness.
The importance of baptism can vary depending on each family's values. For some, it is a deeply religious gesture. For others, it is more of a family tradition or an opportunity to celebrate the child. Whatever the motivation, it is important that the decision is made with an open heart and with the child in mind.
Whether you opt for a traditional or a modern ceremony, whether you choose to organize a luxurious or minimalist baptism, what matters is the meaning behind the gesture. Baptism should not be a source of stress or pressure, but a day when parents and godparents can rejoice for the child, for life, for the future.
When is it done and how is it organized?
Generally, baptism is done in the first months of a baby's life, but this is not a strict rule. Depending on the family's customs, the season, but especially the health of the little one, the ceremony can take place at 40 days, at 3 months or even later. Many parents choose to wait until the baby is older, more resilient, or until all the important details are aligned: the godparents' schedule, the availability of the church, the restaurant or the photographer.
An important aspect of organizing a baptism is choosing the date. Most often, a Saturday or Sunday is chosen, when everyone is free. However, if you want a smaller event or a more intimate experience, you can also choose a weekday, depending on the availability of the church and the guests.
Once the date is chosen, it will be necessary to pay close attention to several aspects related to organizing the ceremony:
it Choosing a church - You can choose the parish you belong to or a church you love, where you got married or where you go frequently. It is a good idea to go to the priest in advance to discuss some important details such as the date, time, necessary documents, local traditions, as well as the specific conditions of the place of worship.
it Choosing godparents - This is one of the most important decisions. Godparents become spiritual parents, and the bond between them and the child will be a lasting one. Ideally, you should choose people close to you, whom you trust and who can play an active role in the life of the little one.
it Setting a budget - It's easy to get carried away, but organizing a baptism involves a series of expenses: the outfit, the clothes, the candle, but also the party location, the menu, the candy bar, the flowers, the photographer and many other elements that can contribute to the big day. It is recommended at such times to start with a list of priorities and allocate a budget for each aspect.
it Setting the party location - You can opt for an elegant restaurant, a summer garden, or even a small party at home. The important thing is that the space is comfortable and friendly for all the guests, but especially for the baby.
it Theme makes the difference - Invitations, decor themes, testimonials, music, all these elements contribute to a unique and much more personal atmosphere. For example, in 2025, many parents choose parties with unique, pastel themes, inspired by nature or fairy tale characters.
What should the kit contain?
The baptismal kit is one of the most symbolic and important elements of the ceremony. It includes all the things necessary for the religious ritual and is usually provided by the godparents. Choosing a complete, elegant and quality kit reflects the love and commitment to the baptized child, but also care for tradition.
A well-prepared baptism kit should contain the following essential elements:
it Large towel - The large towel is used by the priest to wrap the child after immersion in the baptismal font. It is recommended that it be made of soft, white, clean cotton and as absorbent as possible.
it Small towel for the priest and soap - A towel and soap are essential in the kit, used for the priest's purification ritual. A white towel and a natural soap with a discreet scent, suitable for the baptism ceremony, are recommended.
it Swaddle (or swaddle) - It is a piece of white cloth that is used to wrap the little one after he is taken out of the water, before being dressed. It symbolizes the purity of the new beginning. Given that it comes into direct contact with the baby's sensitive skin, it is recommended that it be made of natural and soft materials.
it Bottle of myrrh - The bottle is filled with oil (sunflower or olive), used by the priest to anoint the child. Tradition says that the baby can be anointed with myrrh for 40 days after baptism.
it Baptismal sash - Traditionally used in some areas, the sash is used to tie a cloth of myrrh around the baby after immersion in water, a symbol of divine protection.
it Baptism Candle - It is given by the godparents and is a symbol of light and spiritual guidance. It can be decorated simply or with flowers, ribbons, angels or various specific themes. Parents and godparents are increasingly choosing personalized candles because they have the ability to add a unique and meaningful touch to the ceremony.
it Baby clothes - Immediately after the baptism, the child is dressed in clean and elegant clothes. One of the godparents' responsibilities is to choose them, but it is important to remember that they should be made of natural materials, comfortable, and appropriate for the season.
it Christening box - All of the above items can be placed in a special baptismal chest, with a delicate and practical design. This can later become a keepsake box where parents keep the baby's first things.
it In addition to the important items, some families choose to add other accessories, such as a soft blanket, crocheted booties, a personalized icon, or other things that have personal value.
Choosing clothes for girls or boys
Choosing christening clothes is one of the most exciting moments in preparing for the big day. It's the moment when parents and godparents imagine their child dressed in the most elegant and adorable baby clothes. But how do we choose the perfect outfit? Does the gender of the child matter? Should we keep traditions or opt for comfort and simplicity?
For little girls, the most sought-after pieces are white dresses or those in pastel colors, delicate and carefully crafted. The favorite materials remain fine cotton, soft lace, tulle and, of course, linen. Accessories such as bonnets, headbands or boleros complete the outfit and manage to make the little princess even more charming. However, parents are increasingly careful that aesthetics do not compromise comfort. Little girls need to be free in their movements, without seams that irritate them or contain synthetic materials that come into direct contact with the skin.
For boys, the options are more varied than they might seem at first glance. From classic suits consisting of pants, vest and shirt, to traditionally inspired outfits with shirts with Romanian motifs, hats or elegant shoes, each choice reflects the parents' style and vision for this special moment. Suits in light shades such as cream, beige or blue remain very popular in 2025, but some parents also choose elegant contrasts, such as ivory pants with a pastel blue jacket.
In addition to the aesthetic aspect, it is important to take into account the period in which the baptism takes place. For cold seasons, multi-layered outfits made of thick but delicate materials are recommended, while in summer it is recommended to opt for cool and breathable fabrics. Cotton remains the ideal choice regardless of the season, because it allows the skin to breathe, but also because it significantly reduces the risk of irritation.
If you feel you need support or have questions, the counselors in AnneBebe stores can provide you with personalized recommendations so you can choose the perfect clothes for your little one, whether it's a girl or a boy.
The role of godparents – what do they buy, what do they offer?
Godparents are not just witnesses at the baptism, they become the child's spiritual parents, an important role in the little one's life. In Romanian tradition, their commitment is profound and involves both symbolic and practical responsibilities. But as a godparent, you're probably wondering what you need to know in 2025 to successfully fulfill your role.
This year, godparents must pay attention to both practical details and the meaning of the gestures they make. Among the most important things they offer is the baptismal kit, which must be carefully chosen, made of natural materials and in light tones, to emphasize the purity of the moment. Also, a soft, elegant and comfortable blanket is essential for wrapping the baby after the dive, especially in cold periods of the year.
Another important element is the baptism candle. It can be simple, decorated with flowers, or personalized with the child's name and baptism date. The godparents keep it lit during the service and give it to the parents to keep as a keepsake or for the child's future religious moments.
The godparents are also responsible for the complete outfit of the little one after the immersion, that is, the clean, new clothes that are put on after the baptism. The outfit must be new, clean and adapted to the season. We recommend that the godparents consult with the child's parents to choose the right clothes, both in size and style.
In some regions of the country, godparents also offer an icon for the child, jewelry (gold bracelet, cross), symbolic gifts or even a silver coin. But, beyond gifts, the most valuable thing that godparents offer is involvement. To be present, to offer support, advice and love, that is, to be a constant presence in the spiritual and emotional life of their godson or goddaughter.
5 gift ideas for baptism
Choosing a baptism gift is a beautiful way to convey affection, care, and support for a new baby. The ideal gift doesn't have to be extravagant or complicated, but rather carefully chosen and memorable. Whether you're a guest, a close relative, or even a godfather, here are five gift ideas you can give your little one:
1. Fully customized kit
One of the most appreciated gifts is the complete baptism kit, personalized with the child's name and the date of the event. This is not only a practical gift, but also a unique memory that will remain in the parents' hearts for years to come.
Depending on the family's preferences, the christening kit can be white or have pastel accents. Made from quality materials, personalized and with a special elegance, the christening kit is a special gift that can be given by the godparents.
2. Symbolic jewelry - gold cross or bracelet
A fine piece of jewelry given at a baptism is a symbol of love and protection. The most common choices are gold crosses, which can be worn on a chain or kept as a keepsake. Gold or silver bracelets, possibly engraved with the child's name and baptism date, are also an elegant and lasting option.
3. Box of memories
An idea that is increasingly loved by parents is the memory box, a touching and meaningful gift. It is an elegant box in which parents can keep the most cherished things from the first months of their child's life, such as the maternity bracelet, the first strand of hair, the first pacifier, a favorite bodysuit or a photo from the baptism day.
4. Organic cotton baby bedding set
A baby's peaceful sleep is a priority for any parent. That's why an extremely useful and refined gift, which will certainly be appreciated by any family just starting out, is a crib bedding set, made from natural materials, soft and safe for the baby's delicate skin. Choose sets made of organic cotton, with discreet prints, in neutral or pastel colors.
5. A teddy bear or a teddy bunny
A teddy bear or a stuffed bunny like Moonie 2.0 is one of the most beloved gifts you can give at a baptism. Soft, friendly and always ready for hugs, it will quickly become the baby's reliable companion. In the first months, it will sit quietly next to the crib, and later it will accompany the small and curious steps around the house. It is a simple gift, but it will certainly be well received by both the little one and the parents.
The most frequently asked questions of parents
Baptism is an exciting time, but full of questions. As parents, we want to do everything "as the book", but sometimes the organizational details or traditions can overwhelm us. Below, we have collected the most common questions from parents preparing for this special moment, as well as clear and useful answers.
1. When should we schedule our baby's baptism?
There is no strict rule. Some parents choose to baptize their child at 2-3 months, while others wait until 6 or even 12 months. From a religious point of view, it can be done anytime after the baby turns 40 days old, at which point the "exit from the church" prayer can also be officiated. The most important thing is to choose a date that is suitable for the family and the godparents, during a period when the baby is healthy and you can organize yourself without stress.
2. Can we get baptized in any church or is there a clear rule?
You can choose any Orthodox church. Some choose the neighborhood church, others one with special significance. The important thing is to talk to the priest in advance, make an appointment, and find out what the ceremony entails.
3. What should the baptism kit contain?
The kit is traditionally prepared by the godparents and contains a few essential items: large and small towel, myrrh cloth, myrrh bottle, soap and a swaddling cloth. AnneBebe offers complete ready-made, elegant and customizable kits, which can contain cotumas, candle and a chest for keeping.
4. How do we choose the right christening clothes for the baby?
Choose comfortable baby clothes, made from natural materials such as cotton or linen. The outfit should be elegant, but also easy to put on. For girls, delicate dresses, possibly with lace, are the most popular. For boys, light suits or 2-piece sets are excellent options. Take into account the season: in winter, add a thick jacket or a blanket, and in summer opt for fabrics that are as breathable as possible.
5. Does the godmother have to hold the baby in her arms the whole time in church?
Yes, in the Orthodox tradition, the godmother (or godfather, depending on the case) holds the baby in her arms during the service. It is a symbolic gesture by which the godmother becomes a "spiritual mother" and assumes an important role in the child's life. If the little one is restless or tired, the parents can intervene, of course, but in principle, it is the godmother who holds the child during the service.
6. What happens after the religious ceremony?
After the baptism service, the family usually organizes a small party or celebratory meal. It can be a small event with only family and close friends, or a larger party in a venue. It is recommended to choose a location that offers access to a relaxation corner for the baby and a quiet area for changing diapers.
7. What gift is suitable for godparents?
A gesture of gratitude is always appreciated. Gifts for godparents can be symbolic or practical, with choices such as elegant product sets, frames with the baptismal picture, jewelry or photo albums. Many parents also choose to give a handwritten letter or card, thanking them for the important role they play in the child's life. It is a gesture of gratitude that expresses the parents' respect and affection.
AnneBebe recommendations for the event
Organizing a baby's baptism is the moment when parents create a memory for a lifetime, and the details, from the costume worn by the little one to the delicate decorations or the elegant trunk, outline an unforgettable event. Therefore, when choosing the right elements for the baptism, it is worth paying attention to a few elements.
· Clothes that tell a story
The christening suit is the piece that defines the theme of this important day. For little girls, our recommendation is to choose a dress with a fluid texture, made of natural materials, such as organic cotton. For little boys, a two or three-piece suit, in a light shade is the ideal choice for a classic and elegant look.
Make sure the clothes are lined with delicate materials and don't have labels that can irritate your baby's sensitive skin. If the event is in the winter, add a blanket or a stylish coat. In the summer, opt for cool materials like muslin or linen.
· The personalized kit – more than just a set
The baptismal kit is one of the most beautiful expressions of love and care for a soul at the beginning of its journey. Its choice is not only about aesthetics, but also reflects the desire to offer the best, purest and most beautiful. A well-chosen kit can be kept as a precious memory for years, a symbol of a day full of emotion. And if it is personalized, it becomes truly unique, a story sewn with love, just for your baby.
· Accessories that make a difference
Fine details are what give charm and soul to a baptism ceremony. Delicate crowns for girls, elegant bow ties for boys, blankets and headbands add a touch of refinement to the baby's outfit.
Don't forget about the baptism candle, which must be chosen carefully. You can opt for a classic model, decorated with lace or one accessorized with animals, angels or floral motifs. It is important that the candle is easy to hold in the hand and not too heavy for the godmother.
· Choose AnneBebe - we are with you every step of the way!
At AnneBebe we understand how many questions arise when choosing a christening outfit or clothes: "Is the material appropriate?", "Does it match the theme of the event?", "How do I dress my little one without them crying?". That's why, in our stores you can find not only high-quality products, but also dedicated advice from experienced specialists. Whether it's your first christening or you just want an informed opinion, we look forward to seeing you. We are here to offer you all the support you need to turn the day into a truly special moment.
Baptism is not just about traditions, but about the emotions that remain. It's about the baby's smile, the tears in the godmother's eyes, and the hugs of loved ones. Every detail matters, and the choices made with care are felt.
Leave nothing to chance on the day of the baptism. Visit AnneBebe, a Romanian manufacturer specializing in baptism clothes and accessories, with hundreds of models available immediately. We are with you to make the preparations a pleasant and much simpler experience.
