Being a godfather at your friends' baptism is an honor, this ceremony signifying the beginning of a new spiritual journey for both you and the parents and the little one. What you need to know is that your responsibility as a godfather does not end with the party and the baptism, but continues throughout life, in which you will have to support the little one with advice and guide him when he needs it.
However, you're probably wondering what the role of godparents is at a baptism , what you need to do, and how much to get involved in the organization.
Time is of the essence, and usually the date of the event is set together with the parents, so that you have enough time to purchase the necessary things without stress. In the following guide, we have gathered essential information that will help you throughout this process, so that you are properly prepared for the big event. If you want more details, you can always call on our specialized consultants at AnneBebe, who can guide and advise you on everything related to the ceremony and beyond.
Complete guide to essential items needed for the baptism ceremony
As a godfather, you will first need to have an open discussion with the little one's parents to make a shopping list and divide up the tasks. At this point, you can offer to help so that the list is organized in a way that is financially comfortable for both parties.
Among the first things you need to discuss is the model of the baptismal kit. Choosing one is relatively simple, with the option of opting for a standard one or for a personalized one, which often acquires greater sentimental value and generally becomes a precious memory over the years. The kit can be selected according to personal preferences or the chosen theme, which will set the tone for the party.
1. Baptismal shroud (crijma) – It is a white cloth in which the priest wraps the baby after immersion in the baptismal font. The baptismal shroud symbolizes the purity and new spiritual life of the child. It is usually made of cotton or linen and may have personalized embroidery with the child’s name and the date of the ceremony.
2. The sash – It is a long white ribbon that serves to tie the cloth of myrrh. It symbolizes divine protection over the baby and is a traditional element that is indispensable in the outfit.
3. Baby Towel – This soft and delicate towel is used to dry your little one after they are taken out of the water. A 100% cotton towel is recommended to protect your baby's sensitive skin.
4. Baptism Candle – Symbolizes the light of faith and spiritual guidance that godparents offer to their child. It can be simple or decorated with ribbons, flowers, or figurines, depending on the chosen theme or personal preferences.
Christening and party clothes
The clothes after the baptism ceremony are traditionally the responsibility of the godparents, who are responsible for dressing the little one immediately after the bath. This should include the following items:
· Bodysuit
Choose a comfortable model, made from natural materials, such as cotton, which is recommended due to its delicate properties. Babies' skin is extremely sensitive, so you need to pay special attention before purchasing a piece of clothing for your little one.
· Suit or dress
For boys, you can opt for an elegant suit or jumpsuit, and for girls, a delicate christening dress. If you want more models or need recommendations, at AnneBebe, both on the website and in physical stores, you will find a model that you like and, at the same time, be sure that it is of quality.
· Hat and boots
Indispensable to protect the baby from the cold, especially if the baptism takes place in the cold season.
· Blanket or throw
Useful for wrapping the baby in church or when going outside, especially recommended in autumn, winter and early spring.
Don't forget the gift for the groom
According to some baptism customs in our country, the godparents must give the little one a symbolic gift, which will remain a memory of this special day. This can be:
it A sanctified icon – offered to protect the baby and guide him on the path of faith.
it A gold or silver bracelet - a symbol of divine protection and blessing, but also a precious gift that he will be able to wear for many years.
These options are very appreciated, but you can be more creative. If you have other ideas, it will be perfect to add a unique and personal touch to the chosen gift.
How can godparents get involved in organizing a premium baptism?
In addition to those mentioned above, godparents can also contribute to other aspects of organizing the baptism:
it Choosing a church – Godparents can suggest a church that has special meaning to the parents. This is especially helpful if they know the priest and are familiar with local traditions.
it Restaurant – Depending on the available budget, godparents can contribute partially or fully to the costs of restaurant menus, thus providing a special gift and welcome help for the parents.
it Candy bar – Appreciated at any event! Sweets are the guests' favorites, and their wonderful appearance and diversity of assortments always create queues at the candy stand.
it Surprise gift for parents and son-in-law – The Ursitoarele remain in trend this year! You can call on a professional company to bring a special moment, full of magic, energy and story, that will delight all the guests.
Now that you know what to do, organizing will be much easier. Planning ahead will allow you to prepare everything without stress, so that you can fully enjoy this special moment. A very important aspect to consider is the quality of all the items purchased – the gift, the baby's kit, and the baby's clothes.
Being a godfather is a unique experience, full of emotions, laughter, and beautiful memories that will remain a topic of discussion for many years, well into old age.
